In the modern world, children are often seen as incapable and in constant need of supervision, direction, and control. However, a remarkable story of survival from the Colombian jungle offers a different perspective. Last year, after a plane crash, four indigenous siblings aged 13, 9, 4, and an infant survived alone in the jungle for 40 days before being rescued. Their story provides valuable insights into the benefits of indigenous parenting practices.
Granting Freedom and Autonomy
In communities where children are viewed as capable beings deserving of respect and autonomy, they are allowed to participate in daily activities from a young age. By granting children more freedom to explore and engage with their environment, parents can help them develop confidence and competence.
Fostering Intrinsic Motivation
Children have a natural desire to observe, imitate, and participate in the activities of adults. Parents can nurture this intrinsic motivation by allowing children to help with chores and learn through doing. Parents can adopt this approach by encouraging their children to get involved in household tasks and by valuing their contributions, thus promoting a sense of responsibility and cooperation.
Providing Emotional and Physical Closeness
In environments where children are surrounded by a community of loving adults who provide emotional and physical closeness, they develop a deep sense of trust and security. Parents can foster this sense of trust and security, by holding and comforting babies and toddlers whenever they seek it. Parents who offer more emotional support and physical contact, help their children feel safe and valued.
Trusting Children's Capabilities
Parents can trust their children's abilities to learn and handle risks appropriately. They can allow children to engage in activities such as climbing trees or using sharp tools under careful supervision. This approach helps children develop practical skills and self-reliance. Parents can benefit from trusting their children's capabilities and providing opportunities for them to safely explore and take on challenges.
The remarkable survival of the four siblings demonstrates the strength and resilience that can be nurtured through this kind of parenting. By embracing aspects of this approach, parents can foster a more confident, capable, and self-reliant generation.
